LOUNGE UNDER THE ICEBERG [Freud as an anchor]

[BabyDee]

wooooow, komprehensif sekali. sis

anger emang bikin exhausted, make bad mood, and ruining the day.
apalagi pas masih berdarah muda ya, apa aja salah kayaknya..
it's so easy to bhoooom, meledak dah.
tapi kalo sekarang darah mungkin udah enggak muda lagi tapi jiwanya tetep harus muda yee kaan.

for me, anger was like carrying a fu*kin bºm, triggernya bisa apa aja yang bisa bikin b0mnya meledak.
kl marah inget mamang Phill Collins, "Just throwing it all away, Throwing it all away, and there's nothing that I can say"


stay safe and sane

Hahaha.. Iya bener.. Waktu darah masih muda, mudah sekali mendidih ya mgkin karena keseringan dibenturkan pengalaman makanya jd memilah energi ini dikeluarkan utk apa hehehe..
Thank you yaa bang apresiasinya
❤

 

[sam_ngaka]

Hahaha.. Iya bener.. Waktu darah masih muda, mudah sekali mendidih ya mgkin karena keseringan dibenturkan pengalaman makanya jd memilah energi ini dikeluarkan utk apa hehehe..
Thank you yaa bang apresiasinya
❤

okay, anytime sis.

btw bus way, maaf oot, suka baca novelnya Haruki Murakami kah?
atau novelnya Baek Sehee yang "I want to die but I want to eat Tteokbokki"

 

[BabyDee]

okay, anytime sis.

btw bus way, maaf oot, suka baca novelnya Haruki Murakami kah?
atau novelnya Baek Sehee yang "I want to die but I want to eat Tteokbokki"

Yang aku tau "seporsi mie ayam sebelum mati".. Apa mgkin saduran atau mirip?
Aku orangnya visual bgt, jd kalau baca novel it takes a really really long time beda sama komik bergambar, atau buku puisi yg ada art-nya
Paling aku baca novel2tereliye, novel fiksi atau puisi2, banyak bgt pe er aku yg belum di baca di rmh

 

[sam_ngaka]

Yang aku tau "seporsi mie ayam sebelum mati".. Apa mgkin saduran atau mirip?
Aku orangnya visual bgt, jd kalau baca novel it takes a really really long time beda sama komik bergambar, atau buku puisi yg ada art-nya
Paling aku baca novel2tereliye, novel fiksi atau puisi2, banyak bgt pe er aku yg belum di baca di rmh

beda penulisnya, brian apa gitu, yang mie ayam belum sempet baca justru. temanya sih sama, mental health.
suka manga berarti ya?
sailormoon, kungfu boy, dragon ball?
atau demon slayer mungkin?
atau tin tin?

 

[BabyDee]

beda penulisnya, brian apa gitu, yang mie ayam belum sempet baca justru. temanya sih sama, mental health.
suka manga berarti ya?
sailormoon, kungfu boy, dragon ball?
atau demon slayer mungkin?
atau tin tin?

Hahaha dulu sampe tergila2sama Bezita dan Trunk remaja..
Demon slayer aku gk ngikutin siy, aku lbh ke ghibli bisa kehipnotis sama para cowok di ghibli hehehe, aku ada kecenderungan selalu suka sama the villain, I know there's something wrong with that.. Mungkin karena mau menghilangkan effect surprise kl yg jahat pasti punya sifat jahat, tp kl yang baik, aku selalu berpikiran mereka gak mgkin jd jahat.. Naive bgt ya..

 

[hnyepe]

Izin baca ya kak, masih belajar juga tentang freud

 

[BabyDee]

Izin baca ya kak, masih belajar juga tentang freud

Monggo hu, tp aku gk banyak bahas ttg Freud , itu cm sebagai prolog aja

 

[sam_ngaka]

uuuuu... bad boy...
aura bad boy emang gak ada yang ngalahin ya?
kayak di film leap year or a walk to remember

apa karena bad boy keliatan lebih maskulin dan manly?

Hahaha dulu sampe tergila2sama Bezita dan Trunk remaja..
Demon slayer aku gk ngikutin siy, aku lbh ke ghibli bisa kehipnotis sama para cowok di ghibli hehehe, aku ada kecenderungan selalu suka sama the villain, I know there's something wrong with that.. Mungkin karena mau menghilangkan effect surprise kl yg jahat pasti punya sifat jahat, tp kl yang baik, aku selalu berpikiran mereka gak mgkin jd jahat.. Naive bgt ya..

 

[BabyDee]

uuuuu... bad boy...
aura bad boy emang gak ada yang ngalahin ya?
kayak di film leap year or a walk to remember

apa karena bad boy keliatan lebih maskulin dan manly?

Sepertinya alter ego aku deep down inside is submissive that begging to be tame hahaha [sub kuadrat],
A walk to remember gk ingat bad boynya kehalang sama karakter si Mandy Moore ..
Emang aura bad boy bangsat bgt hahahahaha..
My kinda bad boy is like Rio in Good Girls series and definitely Robbie William..

Fun fact, seseorang bisa memiliki pola yang berulang secara terus menerus dalam hal hubungan sepanjang hidupnya, ketika memilih type pasangan, itu pun biasanya berdasarkan dari trauma masa lalu yang kita sendiri kadang gk sadar punya trauma itu..

 

[sam_ngaka]

Sepertinya alter ego aku deep down inside is submissive that begging to be tame hahaha [sub kuadrat],
A walk to remember gk ingat bad boynya kehalang sama karakter si Mandy Moore ..
Emang aura bad boy bangsat bgt hahahahaha..
My kinda bad boy is like Rio in Good Girls series and definitely Robbie William..

Fun fact, seseorang bisa memiliki pola yang berulang secara terus menerus dalam hal hubungan sepanjang hidupnya, ketika memilih type pasangan, itu pun biasanya berdasarkan dari trauma masa lalu yang kita sendiri kadang gk sadar punya trauma itu..

wkwkwkwkwk.

yesss, kerasa banget cool dominant bad boy nya.
"get in the car, Elizabeth"


aaaah, i see.
polanya itu kebentuk karena trauma atau mungkin ada craving for someone fit in?

 

[BabyDee]

wkwkwkwkwk.

yesss, kerasa banget cool dominant bad boy nya.
"get in the car, Elizabeth"


aaaah, i see.
polanya itu kebentuk karena trauma atau mungkin ada craving for someone fit in?

Tp aku juga suka nerd.. I think they're sexy hahaha.. Berbanding 180° ya..

Mayoritas orang gak menyukai perubahan, jd cenderung mengulangi siklus yang sebelumnya karena udah familiar dgn siklus itu jd kadang hasilnya pun ya sama2aja..

I once had break the cycle of my relationship with all men and it turns out it helps me filtered people who come into my life, but different person different case..

 

[sam_ngaka]

hehehe... jadi penasaran, nerdy itu sexynya apa ya?
their brain kah?

i see, too comfy ya

 

[BabyDee]

hehehe... jadi penasaran, nerdy itu sexynya apa ya?
their brain kah?

i see, too comfy ya

Nerdy sexy bukan cuma pintar secara akademis aja, tp dia bisa nyambung di segala aspek obrolan, open minded, critical thinkingnya jalan, inisiatifnya juga, contoh sexy nerd itu Ferry Irwandi yg saat ini lagi viral.. He's hot
I can be turn on just by discussing things with that kinda person hahaha..there's a term for that condition, it is called sapiosexual, u can look in Google if u want to..
But the thing is.. Sometimes it gets hard when u haven't find anyone that match your energy.. Or u talk with someone that isn't on the same energy wit u.. It's so exhausted.. It can drained ur soul..

Maksudnya too comfy yg mana?

 

[sam_ngaka]

Nerdy sexy bukan cuma pintar secara akademis aja, tp dia bisa nyambung di segala aspek obrolan, open minded, critical thinkingnya jalan, inisiatifnya juga, contoh sexy nerd itu Ferry Irwandi yg saat ini lagi viral.. He's hot
I can be turn on just by discussing things with that kinda person hahaha..there's a term for that condition, it is called sapiosexual, u can look in Google if u want to..
But the thing is.. Sometimes it gets hard when u haven't find anyone that match your energy.. Or u talk with someone that isn't on the same energy wit u.. It's so exhausted.. It can drained ur soul..

Maksudnya too comfy yg mana?

i see...
yes, me too. love the people with kinda, too

feel you, been there too, it's sooo exhausted

maksudnya too comfy, lebih ke orang yang gak menyukai perubahan.
it takes a lot of guts and energy to faces the changes.
including me, it's so hard to face the changes, and then choose the comfy one.
(really sorry, if my writing got misperception... )

 

[BabyDee]

i see...
yes, me too. love the people with kinda, too

feel you, been there too, it's sooo exhausted

maksudnya too comfy, lebih ke orang yang gak menyukai perubahan.
it takes a lot of guts and energy to faces the changes.
including me, it's so hard to face the changes, and then choose the comfy one.
(really sorry, if my writing got misperception... )

Kl mencari kenyamanan, sprti nya bukan itu alasannya, tp lebih ke cari secure, feeling safe to decide, org lbh cenderung mengambil keputusan atau tindakan yg resikonya paling kecil, atau bahayanya paling sedikit, dan mengambil pola yang sama saat memulai hubungan adalah langkah yg paling aman karena udah familiar dgn sebab-akibat yang akan muncul.. Walau kadang sebab-akibatnya negatif, tp dirasa familiar jd ttp ngambil langkah seperti sebelumnya..

 

[sam_ngaka]

got it, thank you so much for the perspective and insight.

may God always bless and protect you,
have a nice day, Miss.

 

[BabyDee]

got it, thank you so much for the perspective and insight.

may God always bless and protect you,
have a nice day, Miss.

Thank u juga, do'a yg sama utk bang sam yaa